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Monday, November 15, 2010

XX vs. XY

As a female, often times the odds are not in our favor. Certain things that men can do we "can't" according to this unspoken law. And if done anyway, all kinds of bad names are then associated. Double standard since the existence of time. I however, have an opinion about it all. Yes I am a female and I don't expect acceptance nor understanding, I just ask that you hold all judgment until the end...and even then keep it to yourself.

If a female has detached sex that makes her a whore, if a man does that makes him the man....No, he's a whore too, only a justified one. I personally feel that the only time it's an issue is if it's done bigger and better than any man could do it. It's all about pride. And male pride, let me tell you....is a serious drug. I mean seriously get over yourselves. Cuz yall aint shit without a woman, yeah I said it. You get as bitchy/sweet/apologetic/pathetic as any female when you stand to lose someone that you know can never be replaced. So instead of staying on the straight and narrow, you test the limits of her love, and devotion, and her sanity until she can no longer take it. And even then you still don't get it. Men=selfishness, woman=selflessness. It's exhausting. You take and break down the very essence of the thing you can't live without and then have the audacity to call names and point fingers b/c you don't feel there are any good women left. How can there be, when your responsible for the lack thereof. How can there be, when hearts are constantly trampled, trust is repeatedly broken, and souls end up completely sucked dry. By you. Let's not get this twisted, many women are responsible for there own demise, and many deserve exactly what they get, but the good ones often get mixed in the mayhem, and in the words of Hov - "once a good girls' gone, bad, she's gone forever. Mourn forever..." And SHE has to live the fact that you did her wrong forever...slight rewording. Bcuz it's the truth. The guilt doesn't live within the man ever, and if it does, it's only until the next "victim" is found. But women carry it around, unable to forget, able to let go, but never fully. When a woman's gives her love, it's intended for a lifetime. And when that loves no longer exists it takes a piece of her that can never be replaced. So instead of losing piece by piece, loving man after man, they go numb....and in turn become the very thing that soiled their essence. Makes sense if you CHOOSE to see the logic. What creature in their right mind, in any environment, would constantly, continuously put their hand in fire if say after the first 3 times they realized it burns...(and yes 3 times, sadly lessons aren't often learned the 1st or 2nd time around).

Women stand to lose everything by going after what they want. Love, commitment, honesty, stability, and a lil' appreciation. Become everything they said they would never, everything they were raised to despise. And those accountable point fingers...take no responsibility. Exceptions to every rule of course on both sides, but it's the ignorance of the male mind that would make any one of them in their right take offense to or get mad about anything that I have just said. I speak the truth, it's all I know. I see it, I live it, I hear it, and you can ignore it as you do everything else.

That is all.

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